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16 August, 2018
Anger boils and bubbles Causing toils and troubles Can’t seem to run Can’t seem to hide It boils and boils And surfaces With words Words that harm Hurt and destroy Why? When all I have done is try! Anger does destroy, more often than we can even begin to imagine. It destroys our inner peace and harmony. It eats away at us when we instinctively know that we could and should have used different words…
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When you are ready to Kill. Anger, we have all experienced it. More than likely we have uttered the words ‘’I could happily kill you’’ or within your tight circle of friends or family ‘’that person needs taking out’’. Well apart from the fact that killing is murder, and a crime would you truly kill someone? Many people especially here in South Africa are pro reinstating the death penalty. And in some instances, I suppose…
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How many lies have you heard in the last few weeks? Did you have a gut feeling the words being spoken were not the truth? Lies are ugly, deceitful and you must never lie to mommy and daddy – have you uttered these exact words yourself? Dear Parent/s Think about how often you lie to your child. How many untruths you have uttered and in the same instance lying to yourself. Telling yourself and anyone…
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13 March, 2018
I Am Broken I am broken. I am hurt. They broke me like glass. I fell like sand through an hour glass. But I turned my life around. And here I am now. This is me ©~KGM~ Have you ever had the misfortune of being bullied? If yes, you will understand those words the most. Yet there will be those who did not survive the bullies, yes, they took their own lives, there are those…
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If you are wondering whether you or anyone you know may well be suffering from the co-dependency syndrome, here are a few ‘’self-diagnosing’’ pointers. However, I would advise that should you feel you are having problems with being co-dependent please do yourself a favour and go and see someone for counselling. Get it sorted out for your own sake. This could potentially wreck so many of your relationships. And yes, it can be sorted and…
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February 5th 2018, Life Coaching With T hosted an event Changing 1 Person At A Time. Abuse, is such an integrated part of society. It is one of those aspects of society which need to be eradicated - will we succeed? We most definitely can, but it starts with you and me and how we react, respond and how we inform others. Abuse is widely recognised but also very much a taboo subject at the…
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22 December, 2017
The festive season is upon us - so many people feel abandoned, hated and alone. As we look at the essence of this time, it is about giving and sharing. Yet when you are in the throws of your own despair it is most definitely not a feeling that comes to you of wanting to share. Not your time or your presence. You may well throw money (for those who can afford to do so)…
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A child harmed, has the great potential to become a battered adult. You may not agree, you may feel you never had a problem, which if the case be extremely grateful. The truth though is that the majority of children have felt pain in one form or another. Fear, abuse and whether verbal, emotional or physical leave marks and indentations that run deep. Each adult will be able to attest to some form of harm…
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11 July, 2017
When meeting me you would never guess that I have worn the badges or helmets of fear, anger, self-worthlessness, and abuse. The reason is two-fold. First and foremost, I have overcome! And everyone can, it is a choice you make, one of either remaining a victim or becoming the victor. Secondly, like most people, in the beginning I felt ashamed to let others know what had happened to me. It is fair to say most…
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29 June, 2017
Challenges are faced every single day of our lives. Challenges are there to make us stronger, or so the saying goes. However, our challenges in daily life so often stem from issues faced and not dealt with during our childhood and growing up years. As a life coach, I have seen this often, and we have not come to grasp what we do to the young, what our own actions cause and how we are…
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